Face all days

There are days when you are great and days when you feel worse than ever, challenge them all. Don't ever let your ego to destroy you by too much self confidence and pride. Success is not an end it's just a beginning.

Watch out for being too humble to what you've already achieved. Don't let nobody and nothing to take control over you. Happy life is understanding of different situations, behaviors and ability to keep everything balanced in your own world. Building environment by gathering the right people over you is the best way for dreams come true.

Sometimes days are grey and inexpressive but don't get depressed too easy, after the rain the sun comes out. Even the most difficult moments bring experience and knowledge to your life. Patience is what keeps every dreamer alive. You have to survive the worst times just like you appreciate the good ones. We don't choose place where we born and we don't choose childhood but we can choose life and happiness instead of hopeless misery.

Every day is different, even you feel like nothing changes, the world is not the same tomorrow. Take a part in it, get up, stand up, tell them what you believe, stop being everyone else. Create your own life just like you always wanted. But, when finally you enthusiastically decide to do it, remember that it won't be easy, it never was. 

Be ready for the good and for the bad times, be ready to face all days...

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Like birds in the sky

Even we can't fly there are moments in life when we are free like birds in the sky...

Yes there are, but before years of freedom there are always years of slavery. No matter where we're from, Africa, Asia, America or Europe our fathers has lost their freedom more than once in the history of the world. Every nation has experienced some kind of slavery or so called limited freedom which really doesn't exist for true men of honor.

There is no difference if you are poor or rich as both can be slaves of money at the same time. One is trapped for every day struggle to survive, paying bills and looking for cheap food because he earns too little. The other one is spending so much that he has to keep his businesses in top condition all the time not to bankrupt and land on the street the next day.

Chasing funds should never be your purpose, money are just a means to an end which is freedom. Some rich people just reach further and further with their needs and they are never satisfied. They think having money is a key to happiness but the truth is that only absolute freedom can make your life truly beautiful. 

Slaves of wealth are not much different than slaves of poverty, all they need is money.

Appreciate all those moments when you forget about riches. Celebrate moments with your family, friends, moments with yourself and moments with nature. Enjoy that unique conscious state of mind. 

Spread your wings and let the wind keep you up there as long as possible, enjoy your freedom!

Beauty of all doesn't mean beautiful

What is beauty in fact if it is not what we see in the first place... or maybe it is only what we see and everything else is just ugly or common?

We see beauty in people, clothes, cars, styles, art, and actions. Sometimes because of tattoos on shapely body, sometimes because the material is soft and has a great color. We see beauty in anything from smartphone to a bottle of coke... Have we forgot what beautiful is? Maybe we've just lost the empathy and attention to what really matters.

Some places are really beautiful but most are just different from our homelands and that is why we admire them so much.

The most difficult thing is to see beauty in people who, in the social norms are considered poor or ugly. This is something we are ashamed of most, but this is also something that makes us the most human in the world of fake.

A beautiful pics on Instagram, of a beautiful 16 year old girl (selfies of course) on a beautiful holidays in beautiful mountains with beautiful boyfriend and beautiful friends dressed beautiful in expensive clothes, doing snowboarding and drinking beer having fun all day... Isn't beautiful?

Now how about a girl same age who instead of parties and fun during winter holidays is going to run through whole two weeks 50 kilometers on her own feet to help 4 year old child, who has a cancer no hair and no money for further therapy. She runs from one city to another to make people see how important it is to help others. Gaining attention for those who can't wait, is her life goal. No Instagram, no selfies, no rich friends and you know what, she's not even beautiful... She is a beauty itself.

Make good every day and be beautiful for yourself.

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Stop dream about life, live with a dream

We may not be happy with our jobs or life partners, we may feel like there is a better life for us or like we deserve more because we were born to mean something. We may feel lonely and lost but we can't forget it's not over...

It is never too late to find a purpose and change own life for it.
All people have dreams as kids, even when grow up too, but after few years of regular job they start to forget or maybe just lose hope. They focus on routine and schemat of being a part of the society. 
They not only become a part of the group but rather a group itself. This is who I am they say, knowing nothing about who they really are. Their dreams no longer exist as they have been replaced by social rules and labels given by role models they follow. Facing reality might be depressing but living somebody's life is hopeless.

Even in the worst days, weeks, months or maybe sometimes years we cannot forget what we are living for. Boring job, annoying wife, fake friends can't kill one's original vision. They only blur it for a while, but you are who you are and never let them force you to dream about what they have or what they dream to have.

Go through your life with pride and confidence because as long as you know what rest of the world have no idea of, you are still yourself. 

Even living next to them, you have your own dream... Get it one day, life is to short to wait for the best moment. 

Stick to yourself!

Nothing is perfect

We see people who do their thing like they were infallible. They seem so good that most of us can only admire their genius in action, but there are those who knows that this is only a matter of training and focus with a little bit of talent to become that good. 

Still, good is never perfect as life is too short to reach that level of skills. The truth is that even everyone else see you're doing your best and it seems far more than only good for them, only you know it is not what you want it to be or... that you simply can do more. 

There is always a space for growth and being better because, again perfect is not possible to achieve.

For example. Every day we see beautiful girls on the streets, they might have beautiful faces, hair and bodies, but there is always a kind of defect, and in most cases it's their mind. Sometimes it is a matter of character or a matter of IQ but in conclusion this amazing body is far from perfect with its shortcomings.

Similarly those who are rich and wealthy and famous, can buy anything... except time with their families. Even they seem perfect businessmen and businesswomen they suck as parents by missing large part of their kids childhood.

Sacrifice is what comes to mind when perfection appears as a main target. Sometimes it is worth it, sometimes it is not but one is certain, balance is always the right solution, stick to it!

Motivation is great but inspiration is better

To start doing something new we just need some motivation but to create something big we have to be truly inspired.

Look on the instagram for example and think of it for a moment. Every second person with half naked selfie after workout is a personal trainer or at least tries to be one. Every one wants to motivate others. Great healthy trend but isn't it that this show off is just a mass social demonstration of ego through the internet and nothing else. Nothing bad at all but does it really motivate your conscious self or just its unconscious part which is your own ego? 

You see somebodys great shape, diet advices and everyday gym sessions and you feel it is not ok to sit and rest or go for a party. Your ego wants to be like them or better. This is fine but, how does is motivate you in a long distance? What is important for yourself besides selfies and following trends in life...

Nevermind, anything that will make you change your bad behaviors even a feel of guilty or a fear of being worse, is good as long as it works! 

Great leaders knows that motivation is just for start and soon it looses it's power. To survive all the crisises and finish what you have started you need something more than that... 

You need an inspiration.

When we meet the right people

There are so many faces and situations in life, with so many smiles and good words, but also so many envy looks and fake friends between them. We don't know who will we meet tomorrow and who will they really be but we still have a choice, we can always choose... friends.

Some people change our life for better, some make it more complicated, it is a matter of experience and self confidence what choice we make in future relations.

There is something obvious, If you are conscious of yourself enough, in every new relation that helps you to understand the intentions of the other person. Sometimes it takes few minutes, when in other cases lasts for days, weeks or even months. When you get older it becomes easier to recognize who to hang with and who to hang outside from your world.

After so many bad experiences with people you can be amazed when a complete stranger gives you a hand and wants nothing back for his help. It still happens. Believe in people but be careful, the worst are those who fake their friendship for profit.

It is almost impossible to succeed with absolutly any help from anybody, so when you do so it means you met the right people, don't forget who they are.

Stick to your true friends!