Road to the unforgettable

You can drive you life in two ways, maybe even more but I am not talking about style of driving, I mean result. 

We all have the same destination which is... death, so you can drive your life to the limits and simply get there faster or you can take your time and relax to make your road longer and more pleasant.

James Dean or Robert Redford? Doesn't matter as long as you know what you're doing. They were both great actors and had both good lives but only one of them became a legend. Is early death what we should be looking for then? No, because what we are really looking for, is life. Life which has a meaning not only to us but also for those who are around us.

Even we think we live only for ourselves the truth is that we live for others. When you are a performer you live for your audience. When you are a star you live for your fame and fans. When you are a parent you live for your children and when you don't have a family you live for your friends. What about when you have nobody to live for... you slowly loose your sense od life.

There are rebels and individuals who say they don't care what others say and they really don't. They don't give a crap if anybody here and now will appreciate their hard work, their art or any other creation. What they care for is to become unforgetable. That is what they live for as we all live for somebody. So rebels live for the stars, so they could shine after they're gone...

Are you a rebel? Choose your road to the unforgettable and stick what you live for. Life is too short to live for nothing and to leave nothing behind.

Dreams are not social

Because social dreams are not dreams any more. These are only a projections of someone's visions stolen by non creative minds. People see something and they say: it's me, i think the same, i want it just like the other person... 

Thats how we see a massive population of young people who dream about money and fame without any particular goals or reasons. Oh sorry they've got goals: tattoos, Mercedes G-Class, penthouse, top models, jet plane and so on, but are their real dreams hidden in they subconscious. Is this something they will ever find? Maybe when they get old and realize that what they did with their lives was not what they really wanted, but who cares...

If you want to be a hipster and you make tattoos all over your body plus all this funny clothes and beards you can make you dreams come true very easily. If you want to be a fitness god, just take 2-3 years of hard regular training plus healthy food plus supplements, out of your life and you will make your dream come true, not easily but nothing what can't be done by anybody. 

But these are not drems, these are trends and trends are social.

Remember real dreams are yours not theirs. Dreams are something you have in your mind and heart since you started to speak. Most of them are unconscious and it is only you who can realize what they are before you loose your youth and then life. Don't be ashamed of what you dream of, even if it's not going along with current trends.

Stick to your Real dreams, find them and don't tell nobody as it is your greatest secret and secrets shouldn't be social.

Hiding under the bridge - definition of loneliness

"Sometimes I feel like I don't have a partner, sometimes I feel like my only friend..." even if there are so many people around, our friends, families and lovers. Does it mean loneliness? Is it really so sad? 

No, it only means different and it feels great. For most people being different is more strange than unique, but believe me It feels good to be different, at least my ego loves it!

When you are standing in a crowd, how do you feel? Think about it. If you feel safe as a part of this big group of people you are ok. They all go to work in this bus just like you, it is normal, there is nothing to worry about and you are ok. But when you feel like you don't belong here and you prefer to run in a snow next to this bus, or ride your bike in a rain, to prove yourself you're not average, you are not ok. That is right, there must be something wrong with you...

Maybe you are different? Against your comfort zone, against average known solutions, against the world. There is nothing wrong about it if it gives you happiness. There is nothing wrong about it if you don't hurt nobody. There is nothing wrong about it as real dreams are not social, they are different and unique for every one of us. 

Even it is not a good message to your ego, you have to know that one thing - you are not alone! There are more of us in this world, we might differ one from another but there is a piece of a champion hidden in our hearts waiting until it's released. Don't ever burn it down, let it shine in your inside for your whole life till your time comes.

Be patient and stick to the fire in you, it always makes you different.

Your own way to freedom

Besides of case when you are in jail and only one who can release you is mr president or patience and time, you can always choose how to get to your freedom.

We are all so different that not always freedom means the same to us. Some people want to shine so they drive luxurious cars and wear fancy clothes even they can not afford it, they use credit cards and take loans but this is freedom to them as showing of is a way to fulfill their dreams, at least in eyes of others. 

Other people never have nothing besides of peaceful mind and no stress at all which gives them freedom from financial liabilities.
Some people travel a lot because spending life in one place, called home is like a jail to them, they also find their own way to feel free in life.

There can be Freedom through passion which is so powerful that spending hours, days, weeks, months or even years on it is nothing to someone who loves what he does. Building a race car or writing a book is almost the same thing. It leads to a great final and gives so much satisfaction and fun on the way to it.

So called freedom of creation is where anyone can feel like a god. Being responsible for making something what noone ever made before is such an amazing feeling comparable to first Man on the moon or world record in olympic games. 

You have so many ways to become free person, nothing can stop you when you know what your personal freedom is. Go for it and never stop. 

Stick to it whole life like you used to.

Let me tell you a story

Once upon a time there was a man who believed that he is special and much more important than others around him. His ego made him strong and bossy so he naturally become someone very important... Natural born leader as they say. His friends didn't like him because of his selfishness and pride but there was nobody brave enough to tell him the truth, or maybe they simply knew he didn't care anyways.

The most important thing in his life was this so popular dream of all humanity to become rich and famous. It took him almost ten years of sacrifices and hard work to finally get to the place where everyone is famous, rich and... lonely. 

Why lonely? 

Because all of his closest friends where fake and they just needed his money and power to reach own goals. He had no family as his parents died long time ago and he had no children too because it was nothing to think of for such busy and successful Man called himself free bird.

He spent milions of dollars on cars, houses, yachts and women but couldn't get enough. Happiness never came to his life for more than a while. Thats why he used to say: there is no such thing as love or passion it's an illusion as only wild sex, hard drugs and a stack of money can bring you 5 minutes of joy. He died in the age of 40 because of heart attack.

Although the next day television informed about this tragedy and few days later his funeral became famous because of all the important people, he was never mentioned again by any of them...

This is nothing discovering, we all know why it happens all the time for so many people in the world. There are things which are more valuable  than being great. There are other people who can tell your story one day, not because you deserved it but because it's different.

Stick to the right things in life and tell me your story, you'll become a legend one day, I promise.

Before the darkness comes

In the light of joy, I see my life shining every day, but on the other side of the road I stay blind and hopeless for the rest of my hours...

This could be some cheap poetry of a weak writer but it is only a metaphor for everyday struggle with own mind like we all know. What your mind thinks? Ask yourself this basic question every time you feel you can't take it no more. Every day for every good thought one bad appears but always try to take it positive because balance is the key. Finding positives in negatives will make your mind ashamed and from that moment nothing bad could be your projection any more.

It is certain that we want to progress everyday, we want to achieve more and be supported by more people. What usually occurs in reality is that we are all alone with struggle, giving everything we can and seeing just a small trace of progress in every action taken. What's more we see other people who made it and instead of being more motivated we start to doubt... 

But what do you need it for? You are not them, they are not you, only you know what makes you happy. Don't try to be somebody, be yourself!

What about dark side of the road, when you walk to the darkness without hope, when you see nothing but disaster. This is the place where destiny is written from the very beginning and all you can do is to pretend you'll make it by deceptive creation of future... Yes it is terrifying, but because we travel through our lifes we visit many different places and not all of them are sandy beaches. 

The most important is to remember where you going as through all the dust and dark clouds you can always notice a small glimmer of light which in just a second can destroy all doubts and fears. This is a power of dreams because our biggest dream is to mean something before the darkness comes...

Stick to your dreams, never give up, fight your demons everyday!

Why we can not fly

Because we are humans and only humans. Our actions have no sense often and can be cruel to all living creatures including ourselves...

We kill hope and we kill happiness without purpose, not to survive but just to make somebody down. Mother nature is our greatest enemy, even we say it's so beautiful, the truth is we don't really care for her. We raise our hands to God thinking: "I am the only god in here" and we pray to the money. We even can't be true to ourselves as every one of us wants to be somebody else!

Some of us are insane by trying every day to stop this madness with faith, hope and love. People don't fly, but heroes do. They close their eyes to see above the clouds. Anything beyond average is their world and inspiration for others.

There are just heroes and great heroes but in fact they don't differ much. Famous minds are usually great heroes, as everybody knows them and they last longer in worlds memory. Beautiful minds doing good are unknown to the people and only a few can tell their story.These are just heroes. 

No matter what rank of popularity you have, remember that all heroes can fly, all you need is faith, passion and a dream which soon become your reality. 

Patience is the key.