Dreams are not social

Because social dreams are not dreams any more. These are only a projections of someone's visions stolen by non creative minds. People see something and they say: it's me, i think the same, i want it just like the other person... 

Thats how we see a massive population of young people who dream about money and fame without any particular goals or reasons. Oh sorry they've got goals: tattoos, Mercedes G-Class, penthouse, top models, jet plane and so on, but are their real dreams hidden in they subconscious. Is this something they will ever find? Maybe when they get old and realize that what they did with their lives was not what they really wanted, but who cares...

If you want to be a hipster and you make tattoos all over your body plus all this funny clothes and beards you can make you dreams come true very easily. If you want to be a fitness god, just take 2-3 years of hard regular training plus healthy food plus supplements, out of your life and you will make your dream come true, not easily but nothing what can't be done by anybody. 

But these are not drems, these are trends and trends are social.

Remember real dreams are yours not theirs. Dreams are something you have in your mind and heart since you started to speak. Most of them are unconscious and it is only you who can realize what they are before you loose your youth and then life. Don't be ashamed of what you dream of, even if it's not going along with current trends.

Stick to your Real dreams, find them and don't tell nobody as it is your greatest secret and secrets shouldn't be social.

Hiding under the bridge - definition of loneliness

"Sometimes I feel like I don't have a partner, sometimes I feel like my only friend..." even if there are so many people around, our friends, families and lovers. Does it mean loneliness? Is it really so sad? 

No, it only means different and it feels great. For most people being different is more strange than unique, but believe me It feels good to be different, at least my ego loves it!

When you are standing in a crowd, how do you feel? Think about it. If you feel safe as a part of this big group of people you are ok. They all go to work in this bus just like you, it is normal, there is nothing to worry about and you are ok. But when you feel like you don't belong here and you prefer to run in a snow next to this bus, or ride your bike in a rain, to prove yourself you're not average, you are not ok. That is right, there must be something wrong with you...

Maybe you are different? Against your comfort zone, against average known solutions, against the world. There is nothing wrong about it if it gives you happiness. There is nothing wrong about it if you don't hurt nobody. There is nothing wrong about it as real dreams are not social, they are different and unique for every one of us. 

Even it is not a good message to your ego, you have to know that one thing - you are not alone! There are more of us in this world, we might differ one from another but there is a piece of a champion hidden in our hearts waiting until it's released. Don't ever burn it down, let it shine in your inside for your whole life till your time comes.

Be patient and stick to the fire in you, it always makes you different.

Why we can not fly

Because we are humans and only humans. Our actions have no sense often and can be cruel to all living creatures including ourselves...

We kill hope and we kill happiness without purpose, not to survive but just to make somebody down. Mother nature is our greatest enemy, even we say it's so beautiful, the truth is we don't really care for her. We raise our hands to God thinking: "I am the only god in here" and we pray to the money. We even can't be true to ourselves as every one of us wants to be somebody else!

Some of us are insane by trying every day to stop this madness with faith, hope and love. People don't fly, but heroes do. They close their eyes to see above the clouds. Anything beyond average is their world and inspiration for others.

There are just heroes and great heroes but in fact they don't differ much. Famous minds are usually great heroes, as everybody knows them and they last longer in worlds memory. Beautiful minds doing good are unknown to the people and only a few can tell their story.These are just heroes. 

No matter what rank of popularity you have, remember that all heroes can fly, all you need is faith, passion and a dream which soon become your reality. 

Patience is the key.

Feed your brain

Stock cars are boring, everybody knows that. For people who treat them just like a way of transportation without any passion these are fine, but still boring. For some enthusiasts, cars are like art or sometimes a time machines which can take you back to highschool or even to your childhood. 

But still stock cars are boring, that is why we modify them. We change everything from suspension, wheels, brakes, body, interior straight to the engine, heart and brain of the machine. Engines are getting power and toque with fast reaction to gas and great sound from it's exhaust. This is great but non of your car mods will have sense if you have no fuel.

Our brain is very similar to car's engine, it runs our lives forward. Every new experience is a modification which simply increase its durability. When you gain knowledge you make your head engine more powerful and efficient. We modify our lives too, sometimes for good sometimes for worse, but to be motivated enough to progress every day and never give up, you have to have a dream, possible to achieve. Not only a dream actually but most of all a plan how to get it. You have to know what to do and what to deny to save precious time for your family, friends and your big dream. 

This detailed plan of all small steps on your way to freedom is a gps you can trust. To run your engine and keep it hot you need fuel. Don't go to the gas stadion Find your passion in you, it will keep your brain conscious and focused on priorities just like high octane petrol for your modified car.

Stock cars are boring, but average people are hopeless. Stick to your dreams and passions, feed your brain and go wherever you want, life is too short to regret anything...

Vision to change

All humans have a kind of defect in their nature which is one of the most annoying disadvantages in the ecosystem. This is also the most amazing and developing skill from all living creatures. We sometimes love it but most of us hate it really.

You probably wonder what kind of superpower push mankind to develop and in the same time makes us cursed for centuries. It is simply one thing... we get bored easily. 
We can't do same things every day just like we can't wear same clothes and eat same meals for our whole lives. We are unruly children in the toy shop.

This unique feature drives us to search new ways to do things and new ways to create things. We are pushed through our lives by anxiety of not trying everything around, which is in truth impossible to do. Life is too short and we know that but still we are searching for more. 

Some changes are small and they don't mean nothing, like new clothes or new smartphone in your hand but the big ideas can change your whole life... for those, you need to have a vision.

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Face all days

There are days when you are great and days when you feel worse than ever, challenge them all. Don't ever let your ego to destroy you by too much self confidence and pride. Success is not an end it's just a beginning.

Watch out for being too humble to what you've already achieved. Don't let nobody and nothing to take control over you. Happy life is understanding of different situations, behaviors and ability to keep everything balanced in your own world. Building environment by gathering the right people over you is the best way for dreams come true.

Sometimes days are grey and inexpressive but don't get depressed too easy, after the rain the sun comes out. Even the most difficult moments bring experience and knowledge to your life. Patience is what keeps every dreamer alive. You have to survive the worst times just like you appreciate the good ones. We don't choose place where we born and we don't choose childhood but we can choose life and happiness instead of hopeless misery.

Every day is different, even you feel like nothing changes, the world is not the same tomorrow. Take a part in it, get up, stand up, tell them what you believe, stop being everyone else. Create your own life just like you always wanted. But, when finally you enthusiastically decide to do it, remember that it won't be easy, it never was. 

Be ready for the good and for the bad times, be ready to face all days...

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Stop dream about life, live with a dream

We may not be happy with our jobs or life partners, we may feel like there is a better life for us or like we deserve more because we were born to mean something. We may feel lonely and lost but we can't forget it's not over...

It is never too late to find a purpose and change own life for it.
All people have dreams as kids, even when grow up too, but after few years of regular job they start to forget or maybe just lose hope. They focus on routine and schemat of being a part of the society. 
They not only become a part of the group but rather a group itself. This is who I am they say, knowing nothing about who they really are. Their dreams no longer exist as they have been replaced by social rules and labels given by role models they follow. Facing reality might be depressing but living somebody's life is hopeless.

Even in the worst days, weeks, months or maybe sometimes years we cannot forget what we are living for. Boring job, annoying wife, fake friends can't kill one's original vision. They only blur it for a while, but you are who you are and never let them force you to dream about what they have or what they dream to have.

Go through your life with pride and confidence because as long as you know what rest of the world have no idea of, you are still yourself. 

Even living next to them, you have your own dream... Get it one day, life is to short to wait for the best moment. 

Stick to yourself!

It's never too late to become great

Years are passing by, when we getting older and older. For some people life is a race. For some it's a struggle. We see life as an adventure where everything is possible and where anyone can become awesome. You just have to pick a discipline and master it! 

Save some time for it every day and don't expect to be like somebody else. Don't expect anything and one day you'll become great. That greatness will be your standard and you will hardly remember the beginnings as a rookie.

It doesn't matter how old you are it is never too late to start. 

Plan your goals but live a moment and don't wait for nothing. Let yourself enjoy what is here and what is now, because the truth is: it is all you ever had. Your life is not to be sacrificed to something but to master something you love for constant satisfaction and happiness. 

Don't loose it because "you have to" do this or that. Only thing you have to is to remember that you can choose your way in life. 

It's never too late to do it, as there is always start at the beginning...

Make the impossible possible

Think of all the things you've already achieved in your life. From the smallest successes like passed exams at school or finished projects at work to those huge like building own company or raising your children. Wasn't it all impossible for you before it actually happened? 

Try to remind yourself this feeling when you made it.. Priceless!

Being proud of your achievements is so important for the future plans. Every time you feel hopeless go back to your successful moments in life. There is no bigger inspiration than your own success. It shows your potential and skills. It kills whole fear in your head and it makes you believe again that dreams are possible even when nobody cares.

Make the impossible happen like it was nothing and don't stop to reach your dreams. All you need is confidence and bright vision with a good plan. 

Keep your mind under control and you'll see there is nothing impossible.

Passion revealed

At the bottom of every human heart, there is something indefinite, something that nobody told you about, something that just a few can understand...

It is a matter of time when one realizes that it is a purpose of living a happy life. It is something that every one of us has to find alone. 
The easiest way is to go back to the childhood and remind all the thing that made you happy and satisfied. 

Adults are too limited and too serious to do crazy things. Kids are true and carefree, they show their feelings and emotions right away. It is time when human passion reveals in pure and clear form... Essence of life. 

Find it in your memories and dreams, go for it and make it real. Remind yourself how beautiful was this feeling of absolute freedom and happiness.

Every one of us has a small piece of child inside. Keep care about it and you'll see your life changed. Calculations and analysis are good but might kill your dreams. 

Reveal your true deep passion and stick to it all your heart.

Local heroes

Every place has it's own unique story and even if not many people knows it, it is worth to be remembered and shared. If you come from that place, you are a part of it, so never forget your roots.

Times were very different 70 years ago, but we are still here because a small group of ordinary people sacrificed their existence to defend our homeland. 

They had no chance to win, but they had a dream.. A dream of freedom which has been fulfilled and makes us proud even today.

No matter where you are, remember where you came from and who your ancestors are. 

Remember your heroes.

The sidewalk is yours

In a crowded places like subway or street during rush hours, people walk and drive cars like robots from their home to work or other way around. Their faces don’t show any optimism or happiness, most of them look like they reconciled with their fate already. 

Did they gave up? 

Did they lost their hope? 

You can just guess they did but sometimes between those grim masses you see cheerful faces of dreamers in different age.. 

These people are not there, they walk in the crowd, they drive through the traffic jam but their minds are somewhere in the sky high above the surface of average life. You see that happiness in their eyes even they try not to smile and to look normal. You can tell that they are inspired and motivated just because of the way they look ahead. It's their dream that makes them so unique and different in the gray society.

If you ever felt this way on an average day in an average place between average people that means you are special. 
Even they don't know it or maybe because they don't know it they see it. 

When you stick to your dreams with all the passion you have, you can be sure that wherever you go, the sidewalk is yours.

One of a million or one on a million

We are always responsible for our choices. There is nobody else to blame for the bad consequences or great results than yourself. Weather you follow trends or stay loyal to the classic it is your choice witch way you go and who you finally become. 

Most people just want to be a part of a bigger group to feel comfortable and safe. A few individuals choose their own lonely style and become strangers for the society. Both want to be special, but only a few are really unique.
Those weird people, who choose danger and life struggle, refuse to be a part of any corporation or social organization. They go alone through their life, until they meet people like them.

Because of their individual visions of the world, they set new trends, ideas and new ways for others. They are different, so they think different. They create because this is their purpose.

Those people choose passion and freedom to live their lives just as they always wanted. You can be like them or like rest of the world, it is your life, don't waste it for others.

When they say no

Far far away visions and uncertain goals are only visible to its owners. Every other person is blind and you can’t blame them. It’s not their fault that you can see further. It’s not their fault that your eyes are clear and bright. 

You have to realize that you look insane while you talk about it. You have to understand that talking won’t change anything. Don’t speak, just go. Let your actions to speak for you. Those little steps will guide you to your chosen destination, which will be your first base on this long long way called life. 

It doesn’t end here, because one goal becomes a part of another, but there is always that one dream on the horizon, which shines like a lodestar so you won’t mistake the direction.

People who made it are the best example and inspiration that everything is possible, but an attempt to follow their path will lead you to nowhere. Stick to your own passion and do what you really like. 

Be brave and f*uck schemes, only then you’ll see how great life can be.