Dreams are not social

Because social dreams are not dreams any more. These are only a projections of someone's visions stolen by non creative minds. People see something and they say: it's me, i think the same, i want it just like the other person... 

Thats how we see a massive population of young people who dream about money and fame without any particular goals or reasons. Oh sorry they've got goals: tattoos, Mercedes G-Class, penthouse, top models, jet plane and so on, but are their real dreams hidden in they subconscious. Is this something they will ever find? Maybe when they get old and realize that what they did with their lives was not what they really wanted, but who cares...

If you want to be a hipster and you make tattoos all over your body plus all this funny clothes and beards you can make you dreams come true very easily. If you want to be a fitness god, just take 2-3 years of hard regular training plus healthy food plus supplements, out of your life and you will make your dream come true, not easily but nothing what can't be done by anybody. 

But these are not drems, these are trends and trends are social.

Remember real dreams are yours not theirs. Dreams are something you have in your mind and heart since you started to speak. Most of them are unconscious and it is only you who can realize what they are before you loose your youth and then life. Don't be ashamed of what you dream of, even if it's not going along with current trends.

Stick to your Real dreams, find them and don't tell nobody as it is your greatest secret and secrets shouldn't be social.

Your own way to freedom

Besides of case when you are in jail and only one who can release you is mr president or patience and time, you can always choose how to get to your freedom.

We are all so different that not always freedom means the same to us. Some people want to shine so they drive luxurious cars and wear fancy clothes even they can not afford it, they use credit cards and take loans but this is freedom to them as showing of is a way to fulfill their dreams, at least in eyes of others. 

Other people never have nothing besides of peaceful mind and no stress at all which gives them freedom from financial liabilities.
Some people travel a lot because spending life in one place, called home is like a jail to them, they also find their own way to feel free in life.

There can be Freedom through passion which is so powerful that spending hours, days, weeks, months or even years on it is nothing to someone who loves what he does. Building a race car or writing a book is almost the same thing. It leads to a great final and gives so much satisfaction and fun on the way to it.

So called freedom of creation is where anyone can feel like a god. Being responsible for making something what noone ever made before is such an amazing feeling comparable to first Man on the moon or world record in olympic games. 

You have so many ways to become free person, nothing can stop you when you know what your personal freedom is. Go for it and never stop. 

Stick to it whole life like you used to.

Let me tell you a story

Once upon a time there was a man who believed that he is special and much more important than others around him. His ego made him strong and bossy so he naturally become someone very important... Natural born leader as they say. His friends didn't like him because of his selfishness and pride but there was nobody brave enough to tell him the truth, or maybe they simply knew he didn't care anyways.

The most important thing in his life was this so popular dream of all humanity to become rich and famous. It took him almost ten years of sacrifices and hard work to finally get to the place where everyone is famous, rich and... lonely. 

Why lonely? 

Because all of his closest friends where fake and they just needed his money and power to reach own goals. He had no family as his parents died long time ago and he had no children too because it was nothing to think of for such busy and successful Man called himself free bird.

He spent milions of dollars on cars, houses, yachts and women but couldn't get enough. Happiness never came to his life for more than a while. Thats why he used to say: there is no such thing as love or passion it's an illusion as only wild sex, hard drugs and a stack of money can bring you 5 minutes of joy. He died in the age of 40 because of heart attack.

Although the next day television informed about this tragedy and few days later his funeral became famous because of all the important people, he was never mentioned again by any of them...

This is nothing discovering, we all know why it happens all the time for so many people in the world. There are things which are more valuable  than being great. There are other people who can tell your story one day, not because you deserved it but because it's different.

Stick to the right things in life and tell me your story, you'll become a legend one day, I promise.

Before the darkness comes

In the light of joy, I see my life shining every day, but on the other side of the road I stay blind and hopeless for the rest of my hours...

This could be some cheap poetry of a weak writer but it is only a metaphor for everyday struggle with own mind like we all know. What your mind thinks? Ask yourself this basic question every time you feel you can't take it no more. Every day for every good thought one bad appears but always try to take it positive because balance is the key. Finding positives in negatives will make your mind ashamed and from that moment nothing bad could be your projection any more.

It is certain that we want to progress everyday, we want to achieve more and be supported by more people. What usually occurs in reality is that we are all alone with struggle, giving everything we can and seeing just a small trace of progress in every action taken. What's more we see other people who made it and instead of being more motivated we start to doubt... 

But what do you need it for? You are not them, they are not you, only you know what makes you happy. Don't try to be somebody, be yourself!

What about dark side of the road, when you walk to the darkness without hope, when you see nothing but disaster. This is the place where destiny is written from the very beginning and all you can do is to pretend you'll make it by deceptive creation of future... Yes it is terrifying, but because we travel through our lifes we visit many different places and not all of them are sandy beaches. 

The most important is to remember where you going as through all the dust and dark clouds you can always notice a small glimmer of light which in just a second can destroy all doubts and fears. This is a power of dreams because our biggest dream is to mean something before the darkness comes...

Stick to your dreams, never give up, fight your demons everyday!

Why we can not fly

Because we are humans and only humans. Our actions have no sense often and can be cruel to all living creatures including ourselves...

We kill hope and we kill happiness without purpose, not to survive but just to make somebody down. Mother nature is our greatest enemy, even we say it's so beautiful, the truth is we don't really care for her. We raise our hands to God thinking: "I am the only god in here" and we pray to the money. We even can't be true to ourselves as every one of us wants to be somebody else!

Some of us are insane by trying every day to stop this madness with faith, hope and love. People don't fly, but heroes do. They close their eyes to see above the clouds. Anything beyond average is their world and inspiration for others.

There are just heroes and great heroes but in fact they don't differ much. Famous minds are usually great heroes, as everybody knows them and they last longer in worlds memory. Beautiful minds doing good are unknown to the people and only a few can tell their story.These are just heroes. 

No matter what rank of popularity you have, remember that all heroes can fly, all you need is faith, passion and a dream which soon become your reality. 

Patience is the key.

Some people pay for knowhow to win, some just want to know how to be happy

To follow your dream you have to ask yourself 3 questions: 

Do you know why you want to do it? (a vision) 

Do you know how will you do it? (a plan) 

Did you finally decide that you will do it? (action) 

If all three answers are yes, you are ready to start your journey...

Ok but before everything else, do you even know what is your biggest dream? We are not talking about cars, clothes or cribs, ok wealth can be a goal but it may not satisfy you at all, what then will you do to find complete happiness. Do you know how to find your purpose?

It is not easy and not a short process for sure, it may take a year or couple of years or even a lifetime sometimes but it is definitely worth it. Once discovered you will never suffer on lack of motivation, you become motivation yourself as everything you do will be made with passion and full focus.

How to find your purpose, is there any instruction for it? There are ways and methods which can help you to understand own behaviors and actions but there is no one certain instruction. People who found it, can tell their stories and you can try to relate to it but your story will always be different, that you can be sure. 

Again, same question: How? Take a piece of paper and a pen, draw two columns, one with a header What am I good at? The other one with header What am I passionate about (what do I like)? Think about it well, don't hurry, write everything that comes to your mind. Come back to it the next day and two days later and when you finish writing, try to connect things from the left column to things in the right column. Those few sets of things are your starting points. Choose one and try to master it, if you feel that's not it, try the second one from your list an then the next one... 

These sets can relate to each other by creating full picture of your real potential. When you feel passion and fear go for it and never stop, no matter what.

From now on all you need is a good plan, constant focus and a lot of persistence. Is it that simple? Yes but not easy, simplicity is what it is all about not to loose your main purpose. Be ready for crisis and struggle. It never was and never will be easy. I see it every single day. What makes things happen is hard work and sacrifice. A belief that you are right and that it's gonna happen one day, never let bad opinions to blur your vision. 

Stay awake, focus and stick to the plan. Now you know how.

Feed your brain

Stock cars are boring, everybody knows that. For people who treat them just like a way of transportation without any passion these are fine, but still boring. For some enthusiasts, cars are like art or sometimes a time machines which can take you back to highschool or even to your childhood. 

But still stock cars are boring, that is why we modify them. We change everything from suspension, wheels, brakes, body, interior straight to the engine, heart and brain of the machine. Engines are getting power and toque with fast reaction to gas and great sound from it's exhaust. This is great but non of your car mods will have sense if you have no fuel.

Our brain is very similar to car's engine, it runs our lives forward. Every new experience is a modification which simply increase its durability. When you gain knowledge you make your head engine more powerful and efficient. We modify our lives too, sometimes for good sometimes for worse, but to be motivated enough to progress every day and never give up, you have to have a dream, possible to achieve. Not only a dream actually but most of all a plan how to get it. You have to know what to do and what to deny to save precious time for your family, friends and your big dream. 

This detailed plan of all small steps on your way to freedom is a gps you can trust. To run your engine and keep it hot you need fuel. Don't go to the gas stadion Find your passion in you, it will keep your brain conscious and focused on priorities just like high octane petrol for your modified car.

Stock cars are boring, but average people are hopeless. Stick to your dreams and passions, feed your brain and go wherever you want, life is too short to regret anything...

Vision to change

All humans have a kind of defect in their nature which is one of the most annoying disadvantages in the ecosystem. This is also the most amazing and developing skill from all living creatures. We sometimes love it but most of us hate it really.

You probably wonder what kind of superpower push mankind to develop and in the same time makes us cursed for centuries. It is simply one thing... we get bored easily. 
We can't do same things every day just like we can't wear same clothes and eat same meals for our whole lives. We are unruly children in the toy shop.

This unique feature drives us to search new ways to do things and new ways to create things. We are pushed through our lives by anxiety of not trying everything around, which is in truth impossible to do. Life is too short and we know that but still we are searching for more. 

Some changes are small and they don't mean nothing, like new clothes or new smartphone in your hand but the big ideas can change your whole life... for those, you need to have a vision.

Dark Horse: An all-electric ’68 Mustang’s quest to shatter records from The Verge on Vimeo.

Motivation is great but inspiration is better

To start doing something new we just need some motivation but to create something big we have to be truly inspired.

Look on the instagram for example and think of it for a moment. Every second person with half naked selfie after workout is a personal trainer or at least tries to be one. Every one wants to motivate others. Great healthy trend but isn't it that this show off is just a mass social demonstration of ego through the internet and nothing else. Nothing bad at all but does it really motivate your conscious self or just its unconscious part which is your own ego? 

You see somebodys great shape, diet advices and everyday gym sessions and you feel it is not ok to sit and rest or go for a party. Your ego wants to be like them or better. This is fine but, how does is motivate you in a long distance? What is important for yourself besides selfies and following trends in life...

Nevermind, anything that will make you change your bad behaviors even a feel of guilty or a fear of being worse, is good as long as it works! 

Great leaders knows that motivation is just for start and soon it looses it's power. To survive all the crisises and finish what you have started you need something more than that... 

You need an inspiration.

Fire in your eyes

There are those who exist to be a piece of a puzzle and those who resist to fit in this frame. 

A slight difference between those two types of people is that one of them are trained soldiers and the other are natural born fighters.
Soldiers are a part of organized army. They ensure safety and keep everything in order just like they were told. They are punctual and obey and actually are more like robots than human because that is what big corporations and governments expect. Their lifes are planned without bigger changes as they follow most popular social models of behavior. When they're gone they leave nothing besides bank account number, some private goods and a few memories defined in one sentence: ...was a good man.

Fighters can be a good men or women too and they usually are, but they simply can't submit to any schematic requirements. Even they had to go the same way as soldiers, from the same schools to the same companies, they were always considered outlaws by the society. The only reason for that was their passion for freedom which pushed them to fight with everyone and everything that is limited on this world. When they pass away they leave something to think about for the next generations.

Average people don't understand fighters but they admire soldiers. There is nothing strange about it because they want to feel safe and comfortable whole life even for a price of truth and realness of their own self. There is another difference... soldiers fight for somebody while fighters fight for themselves. They fight for their dreams!

You'll know that you met a fighter when you see one, it is visible in his eyes... or maybe, one day somebody else will tell you that there is a fire in your eyes too.

No passion from fashion

We all unconsciously follow new trends or new ideas and that is normal, we call it fashion, but passion is something that cannot be followed. It has to be admired. 

You will only find it in heart not in mind. It is something constant and stable so every day this pure desire to do things remains the same. True passion will last longer than any global trend or social idea. People sacrifice their lifes to be able to do what they truly love.

Never copied, never duplicated, passion is a true expression of individual character of every human.

Some say that not all people have it and they might be right, but we believe it is a part of every conscious existence even if it's hidden. The only thing to do is to find it. Which is no that easy, sometimes it takes years or even a lifetime.

Fashion can be one's passion of course but to create, means to combine everything you know in your own unique way to build something different, something completely new. It has nothing to do with following trends or habits. Only those who dare to cross the line because of true passion and faith in their own ideas are pioneers and creators, everybody else are just on repeat mode. 

Don't worry what people say, stick to your true passion. It is in your heart, not in their minds...

Be true to yourself and they will believe in you.

Only a mirror can tell you the truth. That face has to be honest and worth trust because if it's not it means you never really existed. 

How can you be a true leader or role model when you just pretend to be one. It is better to stay real and not to become famous than being only a fake reflection of someone else on the red carpet. 

Not everyone would agree. Some most famous celebrities are just a false picture of themselves created by specialists to focus mass attention. They often forget that life is not a movie. There are no happy endings and lucky fortunes. We don't have to be nice to someone who disrespects us just like we don't have to be bad without a reason, cause it's fake. 

We don't have to pretend anything in fact.

Stop playing a role in somebody's world, otherwise you won't ever be free. Don't change yourself to fit, make them fit to you. Once you get it, life will no more be a struggle as real freedom is a pure happiness.

Don't try to explain yourself to nobody, the right people will find you just like success when you do your job with full passion and attention.

Sometimes it feels like, I want to believe but there is so much fake around that only person I can trust is me... and that's fine. Don't judge nobody, focus on the man in the mirror and be the best version of your true self. 

Become great for real first, then stick to it for good.

Why fit in when you're born to stand out

They all follow somebody, they all look for role models and they all afraid to be themselves deep inside. They say, without dreams there are no extra problems to solve, I have enough of my own. Truth, it’s like no need to fly without wings or no risk of falling when you’re not rising. 

But who wants to walk the ground again when only sky is the limit?

Who said you have to fit here like everybody else? Did education system created this schema in your head or maybe parents never told you there is something more than propriety and earning money.
It is all called reality, but the real reality is what you create around you not what you were told to become. There is always a risk you fail because being average is so comfortable, just like copying ideas of others is so easy. 

You have to make a choice, to follow your heart or to follow them.

Look on your Instagram or Facebook account, you maybe think you are so unique and special but isn’t it just a fake picture of yourself created by all the influences from profiles you are watching every day. If not… you are born to stand out, don’t live your life in a crowd, live it as you always wanted with love, passion and excitement!

We are here to survive but only few of us are Bear Grillz the rest are just holding the camera...

No yesterday worries for tomorrow's problems

There are bad days and good days but I walk around in the same shoes...

From euphoric state of mind to deep depression that's how life is like. Sometimes days are beautiful without a reason and you want to jump around with wide smile on your face. On those days you love people, you love life and you feel that nothing else is more important.

Then Suddenly the next day you are a different person. Nothing really changed since day before but somehow you are not able to bring back this happiness again. Morning is not bad but during the day negative thoughts start to rule your life. Since there's nothing changed you see no optimism for the future. No achievements and no effects, it all kills your vibe. Then suddenly everything changes again another morning and you can rule the world once more.

No matter what mood you woke up with remember that it is the same you, with the same opportunities on the same world. There is no yesterday or tomorrow, we live here and now don't waste life for empty thinking. 

Take a deep breath and cut thought race for half a minute. Wake up and realize there are no problems at this particular moment, enjoy life every day.

Passion revealed

At the bottom of every human heart, there is something indefinite, something that nobody told you about, something that just a few can understand...

It is a matter of time when one realizes that it is a purpose of living a happy life. It is something that every one of us has to find alone. 
The easiest way is to go back to the childhood and remind all the thing that made you happy and satisfied. 

Adults are too limited and too serious to do crazy things. Kids are true and carefree, they show their feelings and emotions right away. It is time when human passion reveals in pure and clear form... Essence of life. 

Find it in your memories and dreams, go for it and make it real. Remind yourself how beautiful was this feeling of absolute freedom and happiness.

Every one of us has a small piece of child inside. Keep care about it and you'll see your life changed. Calculations and analysis are good but might kill your dreams. 

Reveal your true deep passion and stick to it all your heart.

The right choice is you

Wherever we go and whatever we do, we have to always remember who we really are. We can follow other people and speak in their language but our real thoughts are different... 

If you ever wonder what to choose or whose opinion is better, remember that the right one is in your head. Think of all the good things about yourself and all the things that you are passionate about, stick to those which you love most.

Till the day you reveal your true self, you are just one average person. Nothing will change and nobody will see you special.
You can wear fancy modern clothes like someone you know, but without true expression of yourself, you are just a copycat. 
It’s like driving a sport car without using it's power, you can have it just to show off but it is nothing in to compare with it’s real potential, real purpose.

Express yourself to the world. Hold on to your passions and dreams. Wear clothes you want and drive your car to the limit. Don't pretend anybody else. Follow your heart and your mind.

Make the right choice because the right choice is you.

The sidewalk is yours

In a crowded places like subway or street during rush hours, people walk and drive cars like robots from their home to work or other way around. Their faces don’t show any optimism or happiness, most of them look like they reconciled with their fate already. 

Did they gave up? 

Did they lost their hope? 

You can just guess they did but sometimes between those grim masses you see cheerful faces of dreamers in different age.. 

These people are not there, they walk in the crowd, they drive through the traffic jam but their minds are somewhere in the sky high above the surface of average life. You see that happiness in their eyes even they try not to smile and to look normal. You can tell that they are inspired and motivated just because of the way they look ahead. It's their dream that makes them so unique and different in the gray society.

If you ever felt this way on an average day in an average place between average people that means you are special. 
Even they don't know it or maybe because they don't know it they see it. 

When you stick to your dreams with all the passion you have, you can be sure that wherever you go, the sidewalk is yours.

In your own style

Different cultures, different people, different styles, that's who we are. This is the beauty of this world, it makes us curious about ourselves. Without diversity we would be more like characters from Pleasantville movie where everyone is alike. 

Sounds boring, but the truth is that cloth corporations want us to have the same styles, food companies want us to eat the same things and banks want to lend us the same money. Do we still have a choice?

Yes we do, as this world is too big for just one possibility.

We can create new ways of doing things and there is no corporation in the world which can predict what free person can do and when.
We don't ask for new technologies, we take what we have and combine it to create. We Mix food to find new tastes, we mix skills and passions to earn more money and we mix styles to create own..

To become a free person, you have to live in your own style #3Stick

Clear vision

Honesty is like a diamond in the world of lies. To uderstand why we are here, we have to be true to ourselves. The only problem is that most people forgotten their true purpose of existence. They only follow trends or other people.

To have a clear vision of who you are, you have to go back to the very beginning, when you were a child and when nothing was blurring your vision of this world. 

Clear child's mind is full of passion and dreams. There are no problems or limits to achieve something. You can imagine whatever you want and become it. 

Every one of us has a little child inside, we just have to find it.

Doesn't matter if every one else tells you that it is impossible, it's even better. That could only means "dream big" is your way of thinking. The right way..

Dreams are stronger than fear, when you clear your vision you will find the way to it. 

Chasing perfection in land of creation

No one is perfect, simply because it's impossible. 

You can always try, but don't worry to be mistaken. Beautiful people hide their worries and fears under a mask of perfection. You won't see mistakes made by successful millionaires either. No matter what they say or what they pretend to be, they are all wrong too sometimes. Even if they are perfect businessmen or perfect models they suck in other aspects of life.

Let yourself to learn on every imperfection you make or see, to improve yourself for the future. It is a human right to be wrong and a matter of charactere not to be wrong all the time.

But from the other way, not making anything wrong saves your time and attention. It creates selfconfidence and makes you feel indestructibe. 

Try to give your best and pay attention to details. Whatever you're good at, if you love it, stick to it and you'll be rewarded... 

They' ll see you perfect.